Herman Cain and the Topic of Sexual Harassment!
Herman Cain accused the campaign of Gov. Rick Perry, proud owner of Nigger Head Hunting Camp of being behind the allegations that he sexually harassed women. Sexual allegations have consumed Mr. Cain’s presidential bid in recent days, particularly as more accounts emerge raising questions about his behavior. A third woman has come forward claiming Cain sexual harassment.
BUT I have a more pressing question.....
What passes as sexual harassment...these days?
Sexual harassment is a serious issue that many people have to endure during their lifetime with consequences that follow them for the rest of their lives. Ladies, you would think twice about dating a guy if he had been in a sexual harassment fiasco even if he had been acquitted for the same reason you wouldn't let Casey Anthony's babysit your kids. Sexual harassment is a pockmark on somebodies character reference. These days in sexual harassment accusations I am hearing more of this:
"He said sexually suggestive things."
"He made me feel uncomfortable."
"He touched me inappropriately"
Here's what I think, I need to know more. Saying someone said something sexually suggestive or did something that made someone uncomfortable is not good enough.
If I'm in an office and I toss a female office assistant a pencil and say, "Here I think you'll know what to do with this," that CAN be sexually suggestive, if you want it to be. If you choose to be uncomfortable you can.
After all Pencil could mean PENIS....
Since you are a woman, I could be suggesting that you are a huge slut and well experienced in the way of penis management. So have I sexually harassed you? If I am talking to you and I place my hand on your back and you feel uncomfortable, is it sexual harassment?
I can understand if a guy walks up to a woman and tells her he wants to stick his d@ck in her p@#sy, that is harassment and I think we can all agree on that. If he says something like, "You look yummy today," it is kinda inappropriate, especially if he doesn't know the woman well enough and it will probably make her feel uncomfortable but that doesn't mean he is sexually harassing her YET. We are adults, if she tells him he has crossed the line and he respects that and never does it again, then we can all move on. If he repeats this behavior then in my opinion it becomes harassment....I think people should take the adult route and talk to people instead of staying quiet about the issue. Sometimes guys don't know that they are offending women and they can't make assumptions unless told.
Good men say stupid things to women, not because they intended to harm them sexually through words or actions but maybe because they misinterpreted the depth of the relationship they had with that woman or perhaps they just had that one slip up. Calling everything that happens harassment takes away the legitimacy of real issues and desensitizes people. Look at what the Duke Lacrosse and Kobe Bryant rape cases did to the issue of rape. Now when a rape story goes public, people either don't give it the attention it deserves or assume the woman is telling lies....Sexual harassment is going in the same direction.
Either way, I am not talking to women any more unless it's using morse code......but then again if they hear me tapping.......tap = tap that = tap that ass. I am sure they may feel unconfortable by all the tapping and "BOOM," I'm a sex offender....
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