Ask A Legend: If he Calls me and I ignore him will he call Back?
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A guy called me and I ignored his call because I didn't want to seem too easy. Is this a good idea and do you think he will call me back?
Jenn.
Ignoring a guy's phone call is a great idea if you are age 11 to 15 or as part of the plot in and episode of Ugly Betty. I think that adult interaction should be conducted in an adult manner. Girls that play games will end up alone, hoarding many possessions, in the company of many cats, watching 30 Rock re-runs. Just be yourself and if you happen to be easy, there are some guys that dig that. Just be classy and worthy of respect and that's the bottom line.
Anyway.........
With regards to the other part of your other question, will he call back? That all depends on what tier women you are to him, which in turn relates to how hot you are (to him). Guys place women on levels. Some women we are prepared to put a lot work into and others are just a passing thought. It's similar to the college application process, you have your wish list, your target schools and then a Bunch of safety schools you should be able to get into.
If you are in the highest tier, i.e the girl that he fell in love with the moment he saw you, he may call you back 1-3 times. The third time will usually be an act of unwavering desperation often after heavy drinking. The lower the tier, the lower the chances are that he will call back after you ignore his call. On the more extreme end of the spectrum, if you are a Safety School, he will never call you again if you ignore his call. You will be in the position whereby you have to call him if you want any type of attention ~ as a woman, you seriously don't want that. Just in case you are attempting to pat yourself on the back, you are probably not in his top tier which is why you are asking questions like this. Hopefully, you are not a Safety School and he'll call you back. In summary, if you are hot enough you can get away with immature, childish behaviour to a point but such actions don't serve the greater good.
Stop ignoring gentleman callers if you interested in them, that doesn't even make sense!
~ Good Luck Jenn.
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